“Why do I feel so alone when I have so many ‘friends’?” The social media context may be new, but the internal cry is the same, "I'm alone in a crowd."
Thirty-some years ago, I read a piece suggesting that our language shapes our identity. It was a period when we were incorporating technological vocabulary into self-descriptive conversation such as “networking,” “processing,” "hard-wired" and “random memory.”
The piece suggested that we would increasingly understand ourselves through mechanical robotic concepts and less in psychological terms that had been common beforoe that time.
But the most interesting point in the essay was that psychological descriptors had replaced theological concepts in our conversation.
I believe the lonesomeness of our day is not significantly different than it was decades ago, but the changes in language (influencing self-understanding) has increasingly blinded us to the solution of our loneliness.
In tech thinking, we need more connectedness. In psych terminology, we need therapy. In spiritual terms, we need God.
Knowing God is our mission at Hillcrest. The boy, Samuel, needed to lie down and listen to the Lord. In hearing the Lord's words, he became a prophet in Israel. The zealous Saul of Tarsus, had to be stopped in his ambition to excel above his peers and ask “Who are you, Lord?”
Our students, like Samuel and Saul, will be fulfilled humans when brought to oneness with God. Jesus was sent to grant us the Holy Spirt to indwell us with such intimacy that we would speak to God in familial terms, “Abba, Father!” (Galatians 4:6).
Are you feeling alone? Listen to elderly Eli’s words to young Samuel, “say, ‘Speak, Lord, your servant is listening.’” You will discover you are not alone!